Minister where you are

"El bon samarità (1838), de Pelegrí Clavé i Roquer" by Pelegrín Clavé y Roqué
“El bon samarità (1838), de Pelegrí Clavé i Roquer” by Pelegrín Clavé y Roqué

This week I have listened to a book on CD while driving to and from my job as a high school secretary.  Philip Yancey tells thought-provoking stories of people in ministry in his book “Finding God in Unexpected Places.”  He devotes one chapter to Louise, a woman who started her own Jericho Road ministry in the Atlanta slums.  She simply looks for needs and responds to them, no matter how inconvenient or costly, using the Good Samaritan as her inspiration.

One night Louise got a call from a woman whose husband had beaten her again.  Louise headed right over and helped the woman calm her screaming children, make supper, and clean the house for two hours.  She was tired but peace-filled when she headed home.  Around midnight three elderly women called Louise because they had no food.  Louise, a senior citizen herself, went out to buy groceries and climbed three flights of stairs to their apartment.  She prayed that the Lord would help her since she was so tired.  She prepared a meal and the four women feasted together, praising God and singing hymns until almost morning.

I confess that I became somewhat discouraged by Louise’s example.  Working full-time and raising a family is so time-consuming and seems to leave little room for service opportunities.  When I worked from home, my flexible schedule allowed me to volunteer more often, and I miss those times of fellowship and service.  I want to serve now—I just don’t know how I can add even one more thing to our schedule.

Then God helped me see, as I drove closer to the high school, that my outward ministry is now at work.  My positive attitude can serve those teenagers.  They need kindness, attention, and respect.  They need godly examples.  I can serve in that way.  It’s not as dramatic as Louise’s work, but it is important in God’s eyes.  In fact, I don’t think a person like Louise could do my job.  Yancey described her haphazard methods and disorganized files.  I must be highly efficient and organized and able to constantly multitask in a working environment which would conflict with Louise’s organic style.  That thought pulled me out of the comparison trap and restored my faith in God’s calling on my life for this particular time.

Of course, my primary ministry is in my home as a wife and mother.  I have often felt pressure to do more than “just” serve my husband and children.  Yet I am happiest when I’m cooking and cleaning and spending time with them, making the home a haven for all of us.  This is an unseen ministry to the world, but God sees it and calls me to serve well.

Where is your ministry?

Undertow

Helianthus

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by Thursday night

the week has washed over me

in a heavy undertow

and I can’t take even one more

harried conversation

printed word

dirty dish

software crash

unpaid bill

without gasping for air.

Under the surface

I wash grime away

from life’s dim mirror.

There Isaiah’s vision overwhelms:

smoke lifting toward the throne

seraphim singing praise

blazing blinding light.

As the hot coal touches my lips

I praise You from the depths:

constant

everlasting

transcendent

holy

mighty to save.

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5 Ways to Manage Work Stress

Meditations+of+My+Heart+webMost days, I come home mentally and emotionally spent from my job at a school.  I haven’t managed my stress well in the past, so eight hours of stimulus and negativity wear me down.  This summer I’ve reflected on my mistakes and thought of five ways to proactively manage my stress this school year.  Here’s my list:

  1. Start with a positive mindset.

On my morning commute, I will pray over my upcoming day.  I can listen to Christian radio at my desktop, which helps me focus on faith throughout the day.  I purchased a lovely illustration of a favorite scripture from gracelaced.com (pictured above) to keep me accountable for my thoughts and words—you can purchase a print here.

  1. Use a journal to vent.

Rather than running to my coworker to vent, which too often turns into griping, I will jot frustrations in a journal.  Then I can weigh their importance and decide whether I need to consult with someone else or simply let them go.

  1. Find a physical outlet.

Since the school bells ring every hour, I will use them as reminders to get up and walk around a bit.  That activity will also give my eyes a break from the computer screen.  I have noticed my own children grumble less once they get moving—surely it’s true for me too.

  1. Don’t contribute to problems.

When gossip starts, it’s tempting for me to get sucked in and drown in the negativity.  I can stop entering the discussion by not asking detailed questions, and I can redirect the conversation or walk away if gossip occurs.  The gossip will no longer head in my direction if I don’t listen or participate.

  1. Choose my battles.

When conflict arises, I usually don’t address it, but the tension burns me up inside for hours.  This year I plan to be more direct.  I don’t have to be rude or ugly, but I need to be direct for my own good.  I can say something like, “That comment was out of line, and I don’t appreciate being spoken to that way.”  Even if the offender dismisses me or doesn’t apologize, I will know I’ve done all I can to confront the problem.

What are your stress management techniques for work?